RED FLAGS in our Relationship With God

Spotting the Red Flags in Our Spiritual Lives

"Red Flags” is a concept we all understand well. The term "red flags" is deeply ingrained in our culture as a warning of potential danger or something to be cautious about.

The idea of ‘Red Flags’ became prominent during the 18th century French Revolution. Red flags were raised to signal martial law was being enacted, warning citizens of military control. Unfortunately, some ignored these warnings, which led to the tragic Massacre of Champ de Mars in 1791, where 50 lives were lost. Ignoring red flags had devastating consequences.

Similarly, in our relationship with God, the Bible provides many red flags—warnings designed to protect and guide us. The Book of Revelation, written by the Apostle John while exiled on the island of Patmos, contains messages to the seven churches of Asia Minor. These messages include both encouragement and warnings—red flags—that remain relevant today. Let’s take a look at these messages and see what they reveal about recognizing and responding to red flags in our spiritual lives.

1. Ephesus: Lost Love

In Revelation 2:2-4, Jesus commends the church in Ephesus for their hard work, perseverance, and commitment to truth. But He also raises a red flag: “You don’t love me or each other as you did at first.”

This warning resonates with many of us. Think of relationships where the initial passion fades over time. Just as marriages can drift into routines void of enthusiasm, so can our relationship with God. Jesus calls us to rekindle that first love, reminding us that a rules-based faith isn’t enough—He desires a love-based relationship.

Reflection: Has your enthusiasm for God or for loving others waned? If so, it’s time to reignite that passion and return to the works of love you did at first.

2. Smyrna: Facing Suffering

Unlike Ephesus, the church in Smyrna wasn’t rebuked but warned of impending suffering. Jesus says, “Don’t be afraid of what you are about to suffer. The devil will throw some of you into prison to test you. You will suffer for ten days.” (Revelation 2:10)

The red flag here isn’t about wrongdoing but preparation. Suffering may be inevitable, but Jesus assures us He sets boundaries for the enemy’s attacks. Just as Job’s trials were limited, so are ours.

Reflection: If you’re enduring hardship, take heart—God sees you, and there’s an end in sight. Persevere, knowing a crown of life awaits the faithful.

3. Pergamum: Tolerating False Teachings

Jesus acknowledges the loyalty of the church in Pergamum despite being situated in “Satan’s city.” Yet He warns them against tolerating false teachings, comparing their tolerance to the sin of Balaam (Revelation 2:14).

False teachings often creep into churches, distorting God’s Word. As believers, we must stay anchored in Scripture and confront any teaching that deviates from it.

Reflection: Are you discerning about the teachings you accept? Ensure that everything aligns with God’s Word and confront falsehood with grace and truth.

4. Thyatira: Compromising with Culture

The church in Thyatira was commended for love, faith, and service but rebuked for tolerating the influence of Jezebel, a figure representing cultural compromise (Revelation 2:20). They allowed external pressures to dilute their spiritual integrity.

This mirrors the challenge of today’s world, where subjective truths often overshadow God’s absolute truth. Jesus warns us not to conform to the world but to remain steadfast in His Word.

Reflection: Are you letting cultural norms overshadow biblical truths? Hold tightly to God’s unchanging Word.

5. Sardis: Spiritually Dead

The church in Sardis had a reputation for being alive but was spiritually dead. Jesus’s red flag to them was blunt: “Wake up! Strengthen what little remains, for even what is left is almost dead.” (Revelation 3:2)

Activity and reputation don’t equate to spiritual vitality. Churches and individuals alike must ensure they’re truly alive in Christ, not just going through the motions.

Reflection: Are you spiritually alive or just maintaining appearances? Return to what first brought you life in Christ.

6. Philadelphia: Persevere Through Weakness

The church in Philadelphia was weak but faithful. Jesus encouraged them: “You have little strength, yet you obeyed my word and did not deny me.” (Revelation 3:8)

Even in exhaustion, obedience and perseverance lead to victory. Jesus promises protection and reward for those who remain faithful.

Reflection: Are you feeling weak or weary? Hold on to God’s promises—His strength is made perfect in your weakness.

7. Laodicea: Lukewarm Faith

The harshest red flag was for Laodicea. Jesus said, “You are neither hot nor cold. I will spit you out of my mouth.”(Revelation 3:16)

Lukewarm faith—a blend of complacency and compromise—disgusts Jesus. He calls them to repent, seek true riches in Him, and reignite their zeal.

Reflection: Are you lukewarm in your faith? Evaluate your spiritual habits and make changes to fully embrace a vibrant relationship with Christ.

The Call to Action

These warnings to the seven churches serve as mirrors for our own spiritual lives. Are we ignoring the red flags God is raising? Whether it’s losing our first love, tolerating falsehoods, compromising with culture, or living lukewarm lives, Jesus calls us to repent and return to Him.

God desires a church that’s alive, vibrant, and rooted in truth. Let’s heed His warnings and renew our commitment to love Him wholeheartedly, endure trials with faith, reject false teachings, and remain steadfast in His Word. By addressing the red flags in our lives, we can experience the fullness of life and victory that God intends for us.